Is it because people are still so unfamiliar with non-binary folks.

Idk if people are straight up uncomfortable.

I've noticed that some people might be uneasy 'cause they're still learning about the nuances of non-binary identities.

I've had friends who are non-binary say that society's expectation of masculinity can be super intimidating to navigate.

tbh, I've had some friends who are non-binary guys feel like they're being policed for their masculinity by others.